{"id":211,"date":"2013-11-13T12:48:30","date_gmt":"2013-11-13T12:48:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.joycejuster.com\/?p=211"},"modified":"2013-12-26T21:37:43","modified_gmt":"2013-12-26T21:37:43","slug":"forgiveness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.joycejuster.com\/thoughts\/?p=211","title":{"rendered":"Forgiveness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\" align=\"center\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.joycejuster.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/Forgiveness4.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-217\" title=\"Forgiveness4\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/www.joycejuster.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/Forgiveness4-300x120.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"120\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.joycejuster.com\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/Forgiveness4-300x120.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.joycejuster.com\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/Forgiveness4.jpg 350w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\" align=\"center\"><strong>Forgiveness\u2026<\/strong>is a choice, a decision.\u00a0 It is not earned nor is it deserved.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\" align=\"center\"><strong>Forgiveness\u2026<\/strong>is not condoning\/excusing\/forgetting\/justifying\/calming Down<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\" align=\"center\"><strong>Forgiveness&#8230;<\/strong>is accepting what happened\/ceasing to be angry\/being neutral\/making yourself feel good.\u00a0 It is the gift you first give to yourself so you can<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\" align=\"center\">\u00a0Quiet your angry feelings and<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\" align=\"center\">Change destructive thoughts.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\" align=\"center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-218\" title=\"Forgiveness3\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/www.joycejuster.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/Forgiveness3-226x300.jpg\" width=\"175\" height=\"232\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.joycejuster.com\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/Forgiveness3-226x300.jpg 226w, http:\/\/www.joycejuster.com\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/Forgiveness3.jpg 251w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 175px) 100vw, 175px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>YOUR SUCCESS IN RELATIONSHIPS AND IN LIFE IS GOING TO BE LIMITED OR ENHANCED BY HOW WELL YOU EXERCISE THESE TWO SKILLS:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>YOUR ABILITY TO CONFRONT AND RESOLVE NEGATIVE THINGS QUICKLY, DIRECTLY, LOVINGLY, THOROUGHLY AND EFFECTIVELY<\/li>\n<li>YOUR ABILITY TO LET GO AND LEAVE BEHIND THE THINGS THAT ARE NOT RESOLVABLE.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Forgiveness\u2026is a choice, a decision.\u00a0 It is not earned nor is it deserved. Forgiveness\u2026is not condoning\/excusing\/forgetting\/justifying\/calming Down Forgiveness&#8230;is accepting what happened\/ceasing to be angry\/being neutral\/making yourself feel good.\u00a0 It is the gift you first give to yourself so you can \u00a0Quiet your angry feelings and Change destructive thoughts. YOUR SUCCESS IN RELATIONSHIPS AND IN LIFE [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,16,10,17,3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-211","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-adult-living","category-articles","category-emotions","category-forgiveness","category-psychology"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.joycejuster.com\/thoughts\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/211","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.joycejuster.com\/thoughts\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.joycejuster.com\/thoughts\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.joycejuster.com\/thoughts\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.joycejuster.com\/thoughts\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=211"}],"version-history":[{"count":21,"href":"http:\/\/www.joycejuster.com\/thoughts\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/211\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":405,"href":"http:\/\/www.joycejuster.com\/thoughts\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/211\/revisions\/405"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.joycejuster.com\/thoughts\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=211"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.joycejuster.com\/thoughts\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=211"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.joycejuster.com\/thoughts\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=211"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}